Dealing with the Stress of Job Hunting

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Job hunting is not just about immediate loss of income concerns;

it can also be emotionally and mentally draining. The long and arduous process of job hunting in a highly competitive labour market, and the pressure to meet financial obligations can significantly affect one’s mental well-being. It's a challenging time for job seekers, and it's important to offer support and understanding to those who are going through these difficult times. 

If you are a job seeker looking for ways to cope with the stress of job hunting, here are some effective ways to reduce anxiety and maintain a positive outlook throughout your job search.

  1. Don’t Give Up: Embrace a Positive Mindset
    Maintaining a positive mindset is one of the most important aspects of job hunting, as it can significantly impact the success of your job search. Job hunting is like a marathon, not a sprint, so patience is key.

    While the process can be frustrating and discouraging, it’s important not to let negative thoughts and emotions take over. Instead, focus on the positives; for example, celebrate the small wins like a recruiter call or sending out another resume. Look at rejections as a step closer to finding the right fit. To improve your chances of nailing future interviews, consider keeping a journal to reflect on what went wrong when interviews fall through. Reframe your negative experiences as learning opportunities to improve yourself. This way, you reduce job-hunting anxiety and cultivate peace and clarity in your mind.

  2. Take Care of Your Physical Health
    Job hunting can be stressful, and neglecting physical health can worsen it; hence, taking care of your physical and mental well-being is crucial. Exercising regularly, eating a balanced diet and ensuring adequate sleep can reduce stress levels and improve mood, making you more resilient during the search.

    Taking breaks and engaging in physical activities such as walking or yoga can improve cognitive function and sharpen focus. This enables you to craft better resumes, prepare for interviews, and perform well during them. As the saying goes, “A healthy body promotes a healthy mind!”

    What’s more, when you feel physically good, you project confidence and energy during interviews, thus making a positive impression on potential employers.

  3. Enhance Your Skills
    Make full use of the downtime to enhance or acquire new skills. The world of work is always changing, with new technologies emerging constantly that can sometimes scare us. Five years ago, a skill that was considered hot may no longer be relevant today. How can we then remain relevant in a skills-focused and competitive job market?

    The good news is that nowadays, numerous courses and workshops are available online, making learning convenient, easy, and affordable. Learn and develop new skills to stand out in a competitive and constantly changing economy. Learning a new skill not only increases your chances of employability but also provides a sense of achievement and boosts self-confidence

  4. Seek Support, Reach Out for Help
    Job searching can sometimes be overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. In Buddhism, we are taught to lean on our spiritual community for support because it is easier to give in to despair when we feel alone. When you lean on your friends, family, or even a counsellor for support, you may see your stressful situation differently and gain new perspectives In such instances, having a strong social support system can relieve stress, help you stay motivated, gain the strength to move forward. You might even find your dream job through connections in your Dharma community!

  5. See the Bigger Picture
    Sometimes, it’s easy to miss the forest for the trees. We become so vested and lost in the details during the job hunt that we lose sight of the bigger picture. What is this bigger picture?

    “If the problem can be solved why worry? If the problem cannot be solved worrying will do you no good.”
    - Shantideva

    Focus on what you can control: Job hunting can be stressful because many factors are outside your control, but you can control your mind and emotions. By managing your anger and frustration, you will be better equipped to handle the job search challenges.

    Long-term perspective: Realise that job hunting is a temporary process with a bigger goal of finding a fulfilling career. Like taming your anger brings lasting peace, a successful job search brings long-term career satisfaction.

    See challenges as opportunities: even though job hunting might be stressful, it can be seen as a way to develop resilience, perseverance and self-awareness, which are valuable skills for any career.


  6. Remember the Divine Connection
    Dealing with the stress of job hunting is not just about external factors but also your internal state. Praying or chanting to Buddha or Mother Tara can help fortify faith and hope that the right opportunity will come at the right time. If our motivation to get employed is to be of benefit to others, be it supporting our parents, family, or sustaining our own livelihood for Dharma practice, it aligns with the vows of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, allowing us to render their help and support to actualise our virtuous wishes.

Conclusion

Undoubtedly, job hunting can be stressful, but handling the stress correctly can help you bring out the best in yourself. When you change your mindset and believe in yourself, you can better manage stress.

And while financial security is necessary, remember that true fulfilment comes from aligning your work with your values. Seeking a job that supports Dharma and benefits society allows you to show compassion, contribute to the greater good, and create a meaningful life. Even if an ideal role is not readily available, you can still find purpose by seeking companies with positive values, contributing your skills to worthy causes via volunteerism, and practising kindness in your daily work.

In addition, if you feel like you need to seek spiritual solace to help soothe your job hunting woes, do come down to Thekchen Choling to attend Dharma teachings, speak to our Sangha or offer prayers to gain perspective on your situation.