Good luck, bad luck and how to solve problems
Blog Post 33: Good luck, bad luck and how to solve problems
“We should see everything that is manifesting as a dance of illusion. Very clearly illusion is telling us that when it appears it is very strongly dependent upon cause and effect.”
The truth is, everything that manifests is dependent upon something else. We must accept this. There is no phenomenon that exists by itself and there is no phenomenon that exists with its own concepts. And we don't have to place labels on everything.
So, the concepts of good luck and bad luck are really subjective. In a situation where our luck is good, but we don't use it to accumulate greater merit, before we know it, it's lost. Once it is gone, it will be very clear that we will have regrets. And we will judge, complain, blame, and justify.
But if we really study, meditate, and observe the nature of phenomena, everything that we end up in began through our cravings, delusions, attachments, and expectations. So, if we decide to gauge ourselves in our dharma practice, we must know that it is going in the right direction when our ego is low – for that is lessening wrong views and purifying emotions.
The essence of Buddha's teaching is about mind training and break throughs. When we can train our mind, we can break through our old karmic habituations. Our idea of good luck and bad luck must evolve. Good luck does not mean that everything goes our way. For that only feeds our ego. And bad luck doesn’t mean everything is against us. For that too is only driven by ego.
When it comes to solving problems, the first thing we need to do is to recognize that we all have problems whether we like them or not. The second thing to remember is that efficiency doesn't work all of the time. Most of us are trained to be efficient in order to be able to get things done, but sometimes something else is needed. Some things just need time. Or somebody else.
We each have different lives, situations and conditions but we can still sit together to keep each other company. We can all meditate together regardless of where we are in the world. When we meditate together, we can heal our outer world, inner world and also forge relationships with others that are graceful and blessed. The generation of great compassion and wisdom are the two most important things that arise from equanimity. And all of this can only be digested and internalized with the time and effort of meditation.
It's not always a matter of knowing the best thing to say or the best thing to do. Sometimes we just need to listen and the best way to listen to self is to meditate. Many times. just by listening and being present with other persons can solve their problems because people only need to be seen, heard, and acknowledged.